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Forget shorter days and cooler nights. This past week many parents took part in an event that signals the end of summer around here: back-to-school shopping.
Mothers maneuvered carts through crowded aisles carrying lists provided by their children’s schools. They carefully checked off glue sticks, composition notebooks and pocket folders. Uniforms and backpacks were tried on and discarded, only to be snatched up a moment later by someone else.
My twin sons took half an hour picking the perfect lunchboxes, debating the merits of several superheroes before finally settling on plain, but more “grown-up” selections. I allowed them time to work it out, remembering my own struggles between Nancy Drew and The Bionic Woman. Nancy won several years in a row.
As a mom, I enjoy rituals that begin each new school year. Frazzled parents are doing more than searching for specific pencils. They’re supplying children with the tools they need to learn. As a former teacher, I appreciate their efforts. However, school lists should contain a few more items to gather before classes begin. These additional supplies aren’t found at Target or K-Mart. Still, your child won’t make it through the school year without:
Guidance – Schools can be overcrowded and scary; most children learn more from fellow students than from textbooks. Have dinner with your kids and get to know their friends. The complicated issues students deal with every day, from elementary through high school, would land most adults in therapy. Children cannot handle it alone.
Support – Turn off television and help with homework. Be willing to pick up kids after tutoring sessions and reinforce lessons at home. Come to school and meet their teachers. After all, parents and teachers are on the same team and odds are we’ll win if we work together.
Patience – When all else fails, take a deep breath and smile. Use humor to deal with the frustrations of youth and encourage within children the idea that nothing is insurmountable. They need to know that a loving family will cushion even the most devastating blows.
These are essential items on every teacher’s wish list. Go shopping for papers and pens; dig deeper to stock up on the rest. Remember that a parent’s participation is the most important tool for a successful school year. Teachers need your help. And so do your kids.
BIO: Catherine Durkin Robinson gave up her career in Boston as a corporate trainer, political activist and rabble-rouser to return to Tampa to stay at home with identical twin sons. Trapped in the suburbs, surrounded by Weber grills and confederate flags, she decided to launch her freelance writing career and explore all that is fun and frustrating about progressive parenting. Not easily defined, she’s a feminist who’s had cosmetic surgery, a wife who has never been domestically inclined, and a mommy who doesn’t particularly like kids. In her spare time, she investigates missing socks.
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